Acts 21 | Renewed Obedience
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Acts 21 Weekly Overview & Daily Devotions
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Monday | Acts 21:1-6
Tuesday | Acts 21:17-26
Wednesday | Acts 21:27-30
Thursday | Acts 21:31-36
Friday | Acts 21:37-40
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Submission to God's Will/Accepting Suffering
"Then Paul answered, ‘What do you mean by weeping and breaking my heart? For I am ready not only to be imprisoned but even to die in Jerusalem for the name of the Lord Jesus.’ And since he would not be persuaded, we ceased and said, ‘Let the will of the Lord be done.’"
-Acts 21:13-14
What it Involves:
This discipline involves surrendering our own desires and plans to God's will, even when it leads to hardship or suffering. It's about trusting in God's sovereignty and goodness, even when we don't understand His purposes, and finding strength and grace to endure trials.
How to Practice It:
Pray for God's Will: Regularly ask God to show you, His plan.
Let Go of Your Plans: Be willing to surrender your own desires.
Accept Hardship: Understand that suffering can be part of God's plan.
Trust God's Control: Believe that God is in charge, even in tough times.
Find Strength in Jesus: Rely on His power to get you through.
Be Thankful: Find things to appreciate, even when it's hard.
Seek Support: Lean on your community for prayer and encouragement.
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“For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.”
-Romans 8:18 (ESV)
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Let’s Talk:
Paul gave up his own selfish desires to live out God’s will for him. It’s honestly very hard to live a life of putting God and others first. We have our own wants and desires that often are in opposition to what God wants for us. It is a daily act to surrender those wants and to embrace what God wants for us.
Questions:
What does God want for you individually? As a family?
What are some ways you can say “yes” to those God plans through action?
What are some beliefs or mindsets that prevent you from fully surrendering to God’s will?
Activity:
A Big, Fat YES
Materials: cardstock or posterboard, scissors, markers, and stickers (optional)
Take your cardstock or poster board and make a large sign that says “YES LORD.”
Decorate it with the markers and stickers.
Post it on your mirror or above your bed to remind yourself to say yes to God’s will in your life.
Live It Out:
We all have desires. Some come from God and others come from our fallen nature. It takes time to learn which one is from God and which one inhibits what God is doing in our lives. Take time to assess what you want and discern if it comes from God or somewhere else. Choose to follow those God-given desires.
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Obedience can be like building muscle: the more you do it, the stronger you become in it. Just like luring weights, you don’t start with the heaviest weight; you build up to it. What small acts of obedience can you start with today?
What are some ways we can discipline ourselves to obey in moments where we REALLY don’t want to or don’t feel like it?
Have you ever had a moment where you chose to obey the Lord even when you were scared, angry, or didn’t know why? (Parent, this is a great time to share a personal experience of obedience.)
Daily Devotionals
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Monday: Read Acts 21:1-16
Watch Daily DevotionParents often know the frustration of repeating the same warnings to their children, hoping they will finally listen. Though every parent wishes one conversation would be enough, most find themselves sounding like a broken record as they repeat the same correction again and again. This same tension appears in Acts when prophets and fellow believers repeatedly pleaded with Paul not to go to Jerusalem, warning him of the chains that awaited. Like a parent begging their child to listen to reason, they must have felt the weight of frustration when Paul seemed unmoved by their pleas. Yet Paul, already aware of the cost of his calling, responded with a heart both broken and resolved: “What are you doing, weeping and breaking my heart? For I am ready not only to be imprisoned but even to die in Jerusalem for the name of the Lord Jesus” (Acts 21:13).
What stands out most is not only Paul’s unwavering obedience but also the response of those who loved him. Though their motives were pure, they longed to protect Paul from harm. They ultimately released their own desires and submitted to the will of God. They trusted that God’s plan was greater, even if it led Paul into suffering. In the same way, we are called to trust God’s purposes in the lives of those we love. At times His will may not align with what we would have chosen for them. Yet like Paul’s companions, we too can learn to lay down our preferences and trust that God’s plan, even when costly, is always perfect.
Spiritual Practice: Trusting God’s Plan for Others
When those we love face trials or make choices we would not choose for them, our instinct is often to intervene or control. This practice helps us release our grip and learn to trust God’s plan in the lives of others, just as Paul’s companions ultimately submitted to God’s will for him.
Pray by Name – Write down the name of the person you are concerned about. Begin your prayer by thanking God for them and acknowledging His love and sovereignty over their life.
Release Your Desire – Honestly tell God what you wish would happen for that person. Then, in prayer, release your desire into His hands, saying, “Not my will but Yours be done.”
Speak Blessing – Instead of praying only for safety or ease, speak blessings over them. Pray for their faith, courage, and trust in God to grow through whatever they face.
Rest in God’s Character – End your prayer by reminding yourself who God is—faithful, loving, and wise. Reflect on His past faithfulness in your own life as assurance that He will be faithful to them.
Want to Dig Deeper?
Study: Proverbs 3:5–6, Isaiah 55:8–9 , Romans 8:28, Philippians 1:6 -
Tuesday: Read Acts 21:17-26
Watch Daily DevotionEven though Paul was brilliant and had devoted much of his life to proclaiming the Gospel throughout the known world, he still chose to humble himself and listen to the counsel of the elders. These elders carried genuine concern and gave instruction that Paul received rather than resisted. Why did he listen to them and not to the believers and prophets in Caesarea who also warned him? Perhaps because Paul understood that God had placed elders in positions of leadership, and he submitted to their role. He could have easily dismissed their advice, relying on his own knowledge and boldness, but instead he chose humility and honored their place in the body of Christ.
This moment reflects a truth that is still present in the Church today. God establishes leaders to guide and care for His people. While not all leaders are perfect and some may even fail, the position of leadership itself is given by God. Our call is to walk with discernment, seeking His wisdom when following leaders, but also to remain humble and willing to submit to the structure God has set in place. When we do so, we not only honor those in authority but we honor God who has placed them there.
Spiritual Practice: Choosing Humility Under God’s Leadership
Paul’s example reminds us that even the most gifted and knowledgeable followers of Christ are called to walk in humility under the leadership God establishes in His Church. This practice helps us learn to trust God’s design for spiritual authority while also asking Him for discernment in following those He has placed in leadership.
Pray for Leaders by Name – Write down the names of the spiritual leaders in your life. Pray specifically for their wisdom, integrity, and strength as they guide others.
Examine Your Heart – Ask yourself if there are areas where pride or independence keep you from receiving their counsel. Confess these to God and invite Him to give you a teachable spirit.
Seek Discernment – Pray for the Holy Spirit to help you distinguish between godly counsel and human error. Ask Him to sharpen your ears to hear His voice through the leaders He has placed in your life.
Take One Step of Submission – Choose one practical way to honor or support a leader this week, whether through encouragement, prayer, or obedience to their guidance.
Want to Dig Deeper?
Study: Proverbs 11:14, 1 Thessalonians 5:12–13, Hebrews 13:17, 1 Peter 5:5
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Wednesday: Read Acts 21:27-30
Watch Daily DevotionHave you ever faced a situation where you knew something could go wrong, and when it did you found yourself saying, “I knew this would happen”? Paul had every reason to feel that way, having already endured the trauma of angry mobs, the hatred of zealous Jews, and the heavy weight of imprisonment. Yet those painful experiences did not hold him back from taking another step of faith by listening to the counsel of the local elders and moving forward with their plans. Paul trusted that even if the worst-case scenario unfolded again, God would be with him, and that confidence gave him the courage to walk in faith rather than shrink back in fear.
It is worth noting that this was not Paul’s first-time facing injustice, hostility, or suffering. Perhaps he remembered the times before when God had carried him through similar trials, strengthening him with the thought, “God saw me through then, and He will see me through again.” This becomes a powerful reminder for us as well. When setbacks or familiar struggles reappear in our own lives, we can be tempted to retreat in fear. Instead, like Paul, we can take another step of faith, choosing to trust that the same God who was faithful in the past will be faithful again.
Spiritual Practice: Remembering God’s Faithfulness in Repeated Trials
Paul did not allow the memory of past traumas to keep him from stepping forward in faith. Instead, he trusted that the same God who carried him through before would carry him again. This practice helps us learn to face repeated struggles with confidence, using past experiences of God’s faithfulness as fuel for present trust.
Recall Past Trials – Take time to write down two or three past situations where you faced hardship or fear. Be specific about the difficulty.
Mark God’s Faithfulness – Next to each trial, note how God provided, strengthened, or brought you through.
Pray with Remembrance – Thank God for His faithfulness in each past situation, and then invite Him to give you courage for any current or future trial.
Declare Your Trust – Speak a simple declaration, such as: “Lord, You were faithful then, and I trust You will be faithful again.”
Want to Dig Deeper?
Study: Deuteronomy 31:8, Psalm 77:11–12, Lamentations 3:22–23
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Thursday: Read Acts 21:31-36
Watch Daily DevotionIn this moment, Paul was surrounded by violence, confusion, and hostility. The mob wanted him dead, voices were shouting conflicting accusations, and the uproar was so intense that truth could not be discerned. Yet in the middle of that storm, God provided an unexpected protection: Roman soldiers who carried Paul away from the danger. Though they bound him in chains, those very chains became the means by which his life was preserved and his mission advanced. What looked like defeat was actually God’s provision, turning what seemed like a setback into a step forward in His greater plan.
This reminds us that God’s hand is at work even in moments that appear chaotic and unjust. Sometimes His protection comes in ways we would not expect or even choose, but His presence is sure, and His purposes never fail. Just as Paul was carried to safety, we too can trust that when life feels overwhelming and the voices around us are loud and conflicting, God will carry us. He may not silence every storm immediately, but He promises to be with us and to use even the most difficult circumstances to accomplish His purposes. What feels like confusion to us is never confusion to Him. He sees the whole picture and is always working for our good and His glory.
Spiritual Practice: Trusting God to Carry You Through Chaos
Paul was surrounded by confusion, false accusations, and violence, yet God made sure he was carried to safety even in chains. This practice helps us learn to rest in God’s protection when life feels overwhelming, trusting that He is carrying us even when circumstances seem out of control.
Name the Chaos: Write down a situation in your life that feels confusing, unjust, or overwhelming. Be specific and honest about your feelings.
Remember God’s Provision: Reflect on a past time when God carried you through a difficult situation. Thank Him for His faithfulness then and acknowledge that He can do the same now.
Pray for Trust: Offer your current situation to God, asking Him to carry you and to help you rest in His protection, even if it does not look the way you expected.
1. Declare His Presence: End by speaking out loud a short declaration such as: “Lord, You are with me in this chaos, and You will carry me through.”
Want to Dig Deeper?
Study: Deuteronomy 1:31, Psalm 34:19, Isaiah 46:4, John 16:33
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Friday: Read Acts 21:37-40
Watch Daily DevotionPaul had every reason to remain silent as he stood before the very people who sought his death. He had faced this kind of hostility before and carried every right to retreat in fear or to hold on to the offense of their hatred. Yet Paul looked beyond both his fear and their hostility, seeing instead the higher calling God had placed on his life. He chose to extend grace, offering them the message of forgiveness and the invitation of the Gospel, even to those who were blinded by confusion and rage. His obedience was not driven by self-preservation but by a deep desire to see others encounter the mercy of Christ.
Fear and unforgiveness will always whisper that it is safer to remain silent, to stay hidden, or to walk away. But obedience calls us to trust that God will meet us in the moment. Like Paul, we are invited to rise above fear and release personal offense, believing that God’s presence is greater than our pain and that His mission is worth any cost.
Spiritual Practice: Obedience Beyond Fear and Offense
Paul chose to speak to the very people who hated him, not out of fearlessness or pride, but out of obedience to Christ and love for the lost. He looked beyond his fear and personal offense to extend the grace of the Gospel. This practice helps us surrender fear and unforgiveness so that obedience and love can guide our actions.
Name the Barrier – Reflect on someone or a situation where fear or unforgiveness tempts you to remain silent or withdrawn. Write it down in a journal or whisper it honestly in prayer.
Release the Offense – Pray, “Lord, I release this offense into Your hands.” Ask God to help you see the person not through your hurt but through His mercy.
Invite God’s Presence – In prayer, declare that God’s presence is greater than your fear. Ask Him to fill you with courage to obey Him, even when it feels costly.
Take a Step of Obedience – Choose one small, tangible act of love, truth, or grace toward that person or situation this week as a step of faithful obedience.
Want to Dig Deeper?
Study: Joshua 1:9, Matthew 5:44, Romans 12:21, Colossians 3:13